tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post1156994393768290765..comments2024-02-21T08:58:09.518-08:00Comments on Her Bad Mother's Basement: BanditHer Bad Motherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03535958887714152413noreply@blogger.comBlogger19125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-16441343490282499992010-08-05T07:11:59.756-07:002010-08-05T07:11:59.756-07:00My house was broken into a few years ago, and alth...My house was broken into a few years ago, and although they stole more than just a laptop, they laid in my bed and took every single pair of my dirty underwear out of the laundry and laid them out on my bed neatly, letting me know they had touched them. It was so much worse than having my things stolen. I felt violated. I understand how OP feels, what is private is private.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-82991255034712034642009-04-12T10:21:00.000-07:002009-04-12T10:21:00.000-07:00I've taken naughty photos too. My husband enjoys t...I've taken naughty photos too. My husband enjoys them! <BR/><BR/>And I'd feel very violated as well if I knew someone in my community whom I'd probably come into contact with had seen them. <BR/><BR/>But, I think that my mom would also react by laughing. The big picture is that your computer's back, your (other) photos are still in tact. Thank goodness!<BR/><BR/>I assume in years from now, Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-18577835792482997672009-04-08T15:15:00.000-07:002009-04-08T15:15:00.000-07:00I'd be pissed too. Your Mom is just probably comi...I'd be pissed too. Your Mom is just probably coming from an era where private pictures were just not something acceptable.Lottifishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03851056564604896346noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-89007325250553684512009-04-08T15:04:00.000-07:002009-04-08T15:04:00.000-07:00I'm seriously puzzled by the lack of sympathy from...I'm seriously puzzled by the lack of sympathy from certain previous commenters. Huh.<BR/><BR/>I see nothing wrong with what you did for your husband (and I'm sure he appreciates it). I would be horrified if someone saw pictures of me like that, and really angry if the person I went to for comfort laughed at my pain.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-45394622168700071282009-04-08T10:19:00.000-07:002009-04-08T10:19:00.000-07:00God, I am so sorry for you. That's a terrible thin...God, I am so sorry for you. That's a terrible thing to happen. And the 'giving back' the laptop was just plain... well, it seems like some kind of sick joke.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-37292244464518009492009-04-07T07:03:00.000-07:002009-04-07T07:03:00.000-07:00I agree - not a thing wrong with sensual/sexy pict...I agree - not a thing wrong with sensual/sexy pictures of yourself. Men are really visual and get a kick out of these things. It's a fun, sexy, harmless way to tell your husband you're thinking of him. Sheesh. Lighten up previous commenters!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-89045186977194798712009-04-07T06:33:00.000-07:002009-04-07T06:33:00.000-07:00Naughty pictures are fun! My significant other an...Naughty pictures are fun! My significant other and I exchange dirty emails/texts/pictures when apart because it keeps us feeling sexy and exiciting. No shame there. <BR/><BR/>I'm sorry they got stolen and used. That is a violation. I would laugh only because that is how I handle most situations. It's my coping mechanism, maybe it's your mother's too?<BR/><BR/><BR/>Look at the bright side: Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-19587273426409664842009-04-07T05:07:00.000-07:002009-04-07T05:07:00.000-07:00I would feel violated too. Because someone was in ...I would feel violated too. Because someone was in my house and because of the pictures. I dont think there is anything wrong with taking the pics. <BR/><BR/>I'm sorry it happened to you and I hope you can find out who did it. I would be willing to bet it was someone you know.Stacyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01292347765475637473noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-4086873038334821102009-04-07T04:58:00.000-07:002009-04-07T04:58:00.000-07:00I would be reacting the same way as you. I would b...I would be reacting the same way as you. I would be upset. I would be MORE upset though, not because some neighborhood teen saw me naked, but because he could of emailed those pics to all of his friends. I would be more worried about my naked picture ending up on some MySpace page or something. <BR/><BR/>Get your computer to an expert who may be able to figure out the ip address. Also, it seems Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-40959452019997606602009-04-07T01:41:00.000-07:002009-04-07T01:41:00.000-07:00I suppose when I was your age I would have reacted...I suppose when I was your age I would have reacted the same way as you. Today I react like your mother, sorry, but I have to laugh. Take it easy, clean your computer or have it cleaned and in a few years you also will laugh about it. It really is not worthwhile that you are so upset.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-74321553660290326612009-04-07T00:03:00.000-07:002009-04-07T00:03:00.000-07:00Wow, all the hostility about taking naughty photos...Wow, all the hostility about taking naughty photos! I would feel totally violated and I understand how awful you feel about it. It's scary not knowing what the thief has since done with the files - were they emailed to himself/herself and then sent on? Put on the internet? You just don't know and that's frightening. <BR/><BR/>Also? You're in a marriage and it was your personal computer - I don't courtneyhttp://fiveseconddanceparty.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-68739687536985627952009-04-06T21:37:00.000-07:002009-04-06T21:37:00.000-07:00Wow - I feel compelled to post and add a comment b...Wow - I feel compelled to post and add a comment b/c a few too many others are being, what I perceive to be, unnecessarily harsh on here.<BR/><BR/>Dear anon - yes, you were violated and I am sorry for it. Not only was your personal space violated, but something private between two people was taken away and used by someone else. <BR/><BR/>There is nothing wrong with what you did, even if some becnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-70306392634119098342009-04-06T20:59:00.000-07:002009-04-06T20:59:00.000-07:00Never understood why women take these silly pictur...Never understood why women take these silly pictures. Do you honestly think your husband is going to forget how you look undressed or dressed for that matter, when he is away on business trips? Are you worried about him being away and that's why you took them? Anyways...there's nothing you can do about it now so no need to keep stressing. At least they returned your computer.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-62035275697486841242009-04-06T18:13:00.000-07:002009-04-06T18:13:00.000-07:00I do feel bad for you - who knows who he showed th...I do feel bad for you - who knows who he showed those pics to!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-63683971446856933282009-04-06T16:01:00.000-07:002009-04-06T16:01:00.000-07:00I have taken private photos for my husband but the...I have taken private photos for my husband but they are kept on a CD away from the computer. I would have put the photo's on a jump drive or a CD so that he could look at them and the photo's wouldn't be on our hard drive. <BR/><BR/>Sorry to say, but it sucks!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-41039128095181874462009-04-06T15:54:00.000-07:002009-04-06T15:54:00.000-07:00I was never into taking pictures of myself to plea...I was never into taking pictures of myself to please a man. This is one of the reasons why.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-32065322520201214962009-04-06T15:46:00.000-07:002009-04-06T15:46:00.000-07:00Oh, I'm so sorry. Our car was stolen back in Decem...Oh, I'm so sorry. Our car was stolen back in December, right out of our driveway, driven around for a few hours, then crashed into a fence. They took our DVD player and our GPS, which I didn't really care that much about, but when we went to go pick the car up at the impound lot, the damn thing smelled like sweaty Dorito-eating teenager and pot smoke. I would have sold the goddamn car to the Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-52254166137785170652009-04-06T15:32:00.000-07:002009-04-06T15:32:00.000-07:00I was coerced into taking pics for an ex boyfriend...I was coerced into taking pics for an ex boyfriend and now I worry someday they'll surface somewhere...They are not very bad, but they are bad enough...<BR/>So I understand why you are upset. And I'll never ever take pics like that again.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-44730733631138543352009-04-06T15:27:00.000-07:002009-04-06T15:27:00.000-07:00Honestly? It's embarrassing, but looking at you w...Honestly? It's embarrassing, but looking at you won't actually hurt you so you might as well laugh at it. If you stop taking yourself as seriously you have to admit, it is pretty funny. Mortifying, but I don't see what wallowing in it buys you except really shitty feelings. <BR/><BR/>Sorry that happened to you!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com