tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post4676410827228488654..comments2008-04-02T15:50:27.759-07:00Comments on Her Bad Mother's Basement: How Do You Know?Her Bad Motherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03535958887714152413noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-61475473843610846562008-04-02T15:50:00.000-07:002008-04-02T15:50:00.000-07:001. He's missing - even for as short a time as half...1. He's missing - even for as short a time as half an hour. This time increases and becomes more frequent as affair progresses.2. He comes up with excuses for having to leave the house or stay out of the house - working late, work trip, going out with the guys.3. Does not answer cell/pager, and always has an excuse - "Cell was off"; "Cell wasn't working." I'm not talking the occasional Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-23888904666690101022008-03-17T08:55:00.000-07:002008-03-17T08:55:00.000-07:00At a children's birthday party, the husband of my ...At a children's birthday party, the husband of my sister's best friend told her that her husband and his wife were seeing each other. She was completely blind-sided. They had all gone to school together worked near each other, and so it wasn't odd that her husband and friend would have coffee together once in a while. I don't know what 'signs' there were to miss; she trusted him and never saw dkazhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13072562667461596506noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-15879627757323232342008-03-12T13:55:00.000-07:002008-03-12T13:55:00.000-07:00Why do you suspect?Why do you suspect?flutterhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11828689769747130419noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-6987933217226725472008-03-12T08:48:00.000-07:002008-03-12T08:48:00.000-07:00If you are questioning, in some way, you already k...If you are questioning, in some way, you already know.Avalonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12717171111059212946noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-59920961379487822712008-03-12T06:35:00.000-07:002008-03-12T06:35:00.000-07:00Like Kate, I didn't know until I was hit in the fa...Like Kate, I didn't know until I was hit in the face with a confession - but in retrospect, the sudden disinterest in sex should have been a tip-off.Beahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15957626443087438904noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-32418295886783680922008-03-12T05:40:00.000-07:002008-03-12T05:40:00.000-07:00Sigh. I'm sorry you're having reason to worry.I d...Sigh. I'm sorry you're having reason to worry.I didn't find out - I had no idea. One of his friends finally sent me an email saying, "I think you should know," and then when I called him and asked, he admitted to it.A dear friend found out because she asked to borrow his computer - again, no suspicions ahead of time - and tried to copy-and-paste something into an email. But apparently the copyKatehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02778318185310548615noreply@blogger.com