tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post7099926009372180218..comments2024-02-21T08:58:09.518-08:00Comments on Her Bad Mother's Basement: How Did We Get Here?Her Bad Motherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03535958887714152413noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-7291857546515215472011-03-01T07:29:30.548-08:002011-03-01T07:29:30.548-08:00The Hoffman Process.....it helped me deal with a s...The Hoffman Process.....it helped me deal with a shame so deep - a shame that only sexual abuse survivors know...this is bigger than you. Check it out.<br /><br />Much love to you....you are perfect just the way you are.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-45881897414543598772011-02-18T18:13:27.392-08:002011-02-18T18:13:27.392-08:00I've been in a situation like this myself and ...I've been in a situation like this myself and let me tell you its torture. I was in love with someone who was always there for me, supporting me and doing everything for me but he was emotionally abusing me and I didn't even know.<br /><br />He didn't want to get married, didn't want to have kids and I knew for years yet stuck around.<br /><br />You are so young and have so many Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-11993543928650979972011-02-18T15:27:26.441-08:002011-02-18T15:27:26.441-08:00First of all, it took some "convincing"?...First of all, it took some "convincing"? That should have been a warning sign to begin with. Then he "forgot his wallet"? Come on. <br /><br />You're young with a lot to deal with already. Give it time and space. He obviously can't or won't handle this big of a commitment. Deal with you. Make YOU okay, then go for a relationship. It's better -- trust Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-58730760780330837132011-02-18T12:26:35.426-08:002011-02-18T12:26:35.426-08:00Yare 20, bi-polar and a sexual abuse survivor. Yo...Yare 20, bi-polar and a sexual abuse survivor. You have a lot on your plate already and it sounds like he's not totally sure about getting married. If it's real love, it will be there in 5 years or so. I suggest spending some time getting to know who you are and understanding your bi-polar disorder before you commit to a lifelong partnership. (I have anxiety and depression myself, so IAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-15114354229640035092011-02-18T12:20:54.551-08:002011-02-18T12:20:54.551-08:00Sweetie,
I know you are hurting and raw from this....Sweetie,<br />I know you are hurting and raw from this. But you are young, and need to make yourself whole before you can succeed with this, or any other, relationship. You pointed to a history of abuse and are struggling with depression. These are treatable, and my humble opinion is that you should seek this support before you commit yourself to any relationship. It sounds like your partner Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com