tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post7333409400850092214..comments2024-02-21T08:58:09.518-08:00Comments on Her Bad Mother's Basement: Read No Evil...Her Bad Motherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03535958887714152413noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-13837249460979932842008-04-23T13:01:00.000-07:002008-04-23T13:01:00.000-07:00I like the idea of letting him know he should sign...I like the idea of letting him know he should sign out of his email in the future.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-76509618535343472442008-04-20T18:50:00.000-07:002008-04-20T18:50:00.000-07:00You can't say anything, despite the weight you car...You can't say anything, despite the weight you carry. I trust that she;ll be delivered the news as she needs to hear it and as she is able to take it.Amandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06785403140233495009noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-34972280867574038072008-04-19T17:01:00.000-07:002008-04-19T17:01:00.000-07:00I would've read the email-don't feel too ashamed a...I would've read the email-don't feel too ashamed about that. I think the girlfriend needs to know. If there is a way to do it anonymously, that is what I would do.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04541591574949339344noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-54706838950081063512008-04-18T06:13:00.000-07:002008-04-18T06:13:00.000-07:00I would want to know if I was the pregnant woman, ...I would want to know if I was the pregnant woman, too. That said, I don't think it would have been the right thing to do to tell her. Vigilante justice like this doesn't, in my opinion, ever contribute to a society's well-being.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-61901995288417411782008-04-16T18:05:00.000-07:002008-04-16T18:05:00.000-07:00I don't know if I'd have the guts to do it at the ...I don't know if I'd have the guts to do it at the time, but I think that it would be a good thing if his exploits had been 'accidently' forwarded to her -- as if he mis-typed or something.<BR/>I've been abandoned 6 mos into a pregnancy -- it was truly the worst time of my life, but in hindsight I'd MUCH rather have ditched his ass *then* as opposed to later. Better the memories of pregnancy be 'Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-14216098900655866072008-04-16T08:11:00.000-07:002008-04-16T08:11:00.000-07:00You should have told the girlfriend. I doubt since...You should have told the girlfriend. I doubt since she is pregnant that they are having protected sex, and this idiot could be exposing her (and the baby) to STD's. I would want to know if it was me.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-59159398085514162732008-04-15T08:40:00.000-07:002008-04-15T08:40:00.000-07:00Yuck. What a crappy situation.I wouldn't tell the...Yuck. What a crappy situation.<BR/><BR/>I wouldn't tell the girlfriend, only because it's totally out of your sphere of influence. If she was a friend of yours, or even if he was, that might be different, but it sounds like this guy is basically a stranger to you. Can't fix everything, and shouldn't always try. <BR/><BR/>But still. I totally understand why it would drag at you. I'd struggleKatehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02778318185310548615noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-59530690207130768092008-04-15T00:06:00.000-07:002008-04-15T00:06:00.000-07:00Ugh. That's a tough one. You should not have read ...Ugh. That's a tough one. You should not have read the guy's email. (Although that's easy to say. I might have done the same,)<BR/><BR/>I would not tell the pregnant woman. Can you imagine? Six months pregnant? <BR/><BR/>That poor woman.Jenniferhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00930427420786164103noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-24129470539266920462008-04-14T21:00:00.000-07:002008-04-14T21:00:00.000-07:00I would want to know if I were the girlfriend. Th...I would want to know if I were the girlfriend. The sooner the better and frankly, I wouldn't care if it were anonymously. My friend's partner cheated on her for over 8 years before she found out. Unfortunately, that was 1 more kid later.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-29740416892802292022008-04-14T20:24:00.000-07:002008-04-14T20:24:00.000-07:00It is not your place to do anything, but perhaps t...It is not your place to do anything, but perhaps to suggest to him to make sure he signs out of his email next time he uses someone else's computerflutterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11828689769747130419noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-33331380333294917682008-04-14T19:50:00.000-07:002008-04-14T19:50:00.000-07:00And sadly.. that guilt and conundrum is a big "les...And sadly.. that guilt and conundrum is a big "lesson learned" on not reading other people's email. I know.. what's done is done. But now you are burdened with the consequences of his issues too.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-45990052000353980802008-04-14T16:33:00.000-07:002008-04-14T16:33:00.000-07:00Hopefully he will get what's coming to him - he sh...Hopefully he will get what's coming to him - he should get a reality check because anything in an email should be anything put on a postcard (for this exact reason). It was the right call NOT to send them to her - it will probably catch up with him but OMG, I'd have a hard time shaking this one too.motherbumperhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16053978199395919666noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-83615629251268863832008-04-14T16:29:00.000-07:002008-04-14T16:29:00.000-07:00Yeah, I think that guy's karma is going to catch u...Yeah, I think that guy's karma is going to catch up with him...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-58682334056732442932008-04-14T16:25:00.000-07:002008-04-14T16:25:00.000-07:00Please don't tell the pregnant woman anything at t...Please don't tell the pregnant woman anything at this point. she is fragile now and lonely.<BR/><BR/>She will find out some time down the road, when she is not so fragile.The City Galhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09819377234772187931noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-61906353478458950782008-04-14T16:16:00.000-07:002008-04-14T16:16:00.000-07:00I can't see a post here, I read the teaser on Goog...I can't see a post here, I read the teaser on Google reader but then *poof* nothing.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com