tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post7383362797233569003..comments2024-02-21T08:58:09.518-08:00Comments on Her Bad Mother's Basement: RedoHer Bad Motherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03535958887714152413noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-22821613658244493452009-04-03T13:03:00.000-07:002009-04-03T13:03:00.000-07:00::Hugs:: I'm trying to rebuild my life too. It wil...::Hugs:: <BR/><BR/>I'm trying to rebuild my life too. It will take some time, but your honesty is a step in the right direction. Too many people stuff their emotions under a rug. I wish you all the best!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-24146381617228576512009-04-03T12:10:00.000-07:002009-04-03T12:10:00.000-07:00Do not give up. Do something to get yourself out o...Do not give up. Do something to get yourself out of your head. What you feel is real, but distract yourself by helping others and you may find some happiness. Volunteer in a school, a community garden, Habitat for Humanity- get out there. You can do it.rella12https://www.blogger.com/profile/15892211219274733025noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-86007194252465350332009-04-02T21:55:00.000-07:002009-04-02T21:55:00.000-07:00Maybe it's not a question of giving up the dream. ...Maybe it's not a question of giving up the dream. Maybe it's a question of reassessing what you were looking for in the first place.<BR/><BR/>At the similar age of 42, I am working through a recent, similar life change that nearly crushed me with the weight of "too late." <BR/><BR/>I gave myself time to mourn the passing of what I had expected my life to be, and told myself that after that Chickiedoodlehttp://chickiedoodle.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-68128044206047227732009-04-02T10:22:00.000-07:002009-04-02T10:22:00.000-07:00Don't give up..don't ever give up. I don't have an...Don't give up..don't ever give up. <BR/><BR/>I don't have anything more eloquent to say...everyone else has said all the words..I just wanted to echo them.<BR/><BR/>Thoughts and hugs.<BR/>Lourallouralannhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10275357032209809821noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-18227503966500095502009-04-02T07:51:00.000-07:002009-04-02T07:51:00.000-07:00You can have that dream. Believe it... Someone is ...You can have that dream. Believe it... Someone is out there waiting for you, thinking they've screwed up, too, and that THEY won't find anyone. You'll bump into him one of these days, when you least expect.Jaden Paigehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05711181837109867842noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-23265929958176331022009-04-02T00:21:00.000-07:002009-04-02T00:21:00.000-07:00Never give up. Being alive is enough of a reason t...Never give up. Being alive is enough of a reason to say it is not too late. You may be fishing in the wrong pond for a friend. There are many different ponds in which to fish. Endeavour to find out in which pond like minded people are located and fish there for a friend. I know this sounds glib but I have heard it said if you want a friend be a friend. I have also heard it said that if you would Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-84383122231795957412009-04-01T20:49:00.000-07:002009-04-01T20:49:00.000-07:00Boy can I relate to this! I know that "lonely and...Boy can I relate to this! I know that "lonely and alone" feeling very well. Due to a lot of negative things in my life...some my fault, some not...I gradually withdrew, as much as practically possible, from people in an effort not to have to feel anymore pain. Now my son is grown and I am alone and I hate it. I started seeing a therapist who is helping me learn to deal with my fears and Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-38102607743650739582009-04-01T20:40:00.000-07:002009-04-01T20:40:00.000-07:00It's never too late. So don't give up.It's never too late. So don't give up.Hayleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15182755801738614449noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-77625107052452261222009-04-01T19:57:00.000-07:002009-04-01T19:57:00.000-07:00I worry that it will be impossible for me to have ...I worry that it will be impossible for me to have a fulfilling relationship because (a) I've never seen one lived out by any of my family and (b) I had little interaction with males growing up, since it was just mom, sis and me.<BR/><BR/>So many women say "I relate better to men than women" and I would like to say the same is true for me (because I don't relate well to most women), but the truth Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-40276181765106635512009-04-01T18:32:00.000-07:002009-04-01T18:32:00.000-07:00DO NOT GIVE UP!What dream of is happiness. The lit...DO NOT GIVE UP!<BR/><BR/>What dream of is happiness. The little details are what you dream of making you happy. Whatever it is that ends up bringing you that happiness - that contentment - the first step is to get some help. I really really recommend that you find a counselor. If you are a person of faith, start there and see if they offer real counseling services. If not, check into it at a SPhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10832572070553635619noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-51559498735786593542009-04-01T18:05:00.000-07:002009-04-01T18:05:00.000-07:00Don't give up the dream, maybe you can still have ...Don't give up the dream, maybe you can still have some of it.<BR/><BR/>I don't have the life I wanted either, I have no kids and a husband who needs me more than I need him and resents me for it more every day.<BR/><BR/>I have a job that pays the bills but that I hate most days.<BR/><BR/>I cry myself to sleep many nights.<BR/><BR/>I won't give up though - someday things will get better. <BR/><BR/Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com