tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post8011444862466954356..comments2024-02-21T08:58:09.518-08:00Comments on Her Bad Mother's Basement: What It Feels Like To Be Left BehindHer Bad Motherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03535958887714152413noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-64587466243447590942010-08-20T12:57:14.132-07:002010-08-20T12:57:14.132-07:00The reasons for your feelings are very valid. I&#...The reasons for your feelings are very valid. I'm sorry that was a part of your childhood, the pain is still there and as a divorced mom, I can't imagine inflicting that on a child.<br /><br />My concern for you, especially because you experienced this first hand, is that your emotions don't affect the children. The mother made a really bad decision, but it is important to keep Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-1071313564791354752010-08-15T03:49:20.998-07:002010-08-15T03:49:20.998-07:00People have children for many reasons, but the wor...People have children for many reasons, but the worst reason would be from not caring to take precautions and not thinking about the consequences. It's tragic, but in reality we humans are often backpeddling and trying to undo the mistakes we make after we've made them. With kids...it's just not that easy to do.<br /><br />I have made that mistake, and I feel horrible about it and Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-26605055766604331512010-08-14T07:01:49.776-07:002010-08-14T07:01:49.776-07:00Not knowing the situation, I will try not to judge...Not knowing the situation, I will try not to judge. I had neighbors at one time that his four children spent six weeks of the summer with he and his wife and their two children together. His kids were delightful to have in the neighborhood each and every year. At the end of one summer, when these kids were aged seven to thirteen, their mother decided that she couldn't deal and they should Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-84478260601901908922010-08-12T19:37:16.209-07:002010-08-12T19:37:16.209-07:00This post breaks my heart. The girls have you and...This post breaks my heart. The girls have you and your fierce love for them will guide you all through.Another Suburban Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16120153702254735445noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-75739996709836418942010-08-12T09:22:32.292-07:002010-08-12T09:22:32.292-07:00Wow - I really felt the pain and anger in this pos...Wow - I really felt the pain and anger in this post. I breaks my heart.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-13254616379606160552010-08-12T09:12:20.464-07:002010-08-12T09:12:20.464-07:00You are *awesome* and those girls are lucky to hav...You are *awesome* and those girls are lucky to have you in their lives. She may be their biological mom, but it sounds like you're their real mom.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com