tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post8120035903371767537..comments2024-02-21T08:58:09.518-08:00Comments on Her Bad Mother's Basement: ScaredHer Bad Motherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03535958887714152413noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-81509221338334840672008-10-10T10:52:00.000-07:002008-10-10T10:52:00.000-07:00My husband has two children from a previous marria...My husband has two children from a previous marriage, and I understand where you're coming from. The need to always say yes is a complex one - not only does it entail keeping the ex-wife quiet, but my husband found it hard to say no to anything for fear they'd stop loving him.<BR/><BR/>I had almost no rights in their rearing, even though it was my house. No rules were ever allowed to be set, Candyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14070433904661239686noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-10414412403776702212008-10-10T09:18:00.000-07:002008-10-10T09:18:00.000-07:00You need to check yourself- you say the daughter l...You need to check yourself- you say the daughter loves you dearly and the only thing you can say is "we get on very very well." That's not right. <BR/><BR/>I hope your husband is smart enough to not listen to you. Children go through different stages. What is not scary one day might be scary the next. I take it you do not have children, right? <BR/><BR/>Stop being jealous of a six year old Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-71323867943204028152008-10-10T05:55:00.000-07:002008-10-10T05:55:00.000-07:00Sounds like a sad situation.And not to make it sad...Sounds like a sad situation.<BR/><BR/>And not to make it sadder, but you shouldn't be having <I>any</I> children with this man until this issue has been addressed and 'corrected'... because it will just lead to cries of unfairness and misery all around. The existing daughter takes priority; if he can't be a good father to her, emotionally and financially, he has no business having additional Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-37398910016476508182008-10-09T17:03:00.000-07:002008-10-09T17:03:00.000-07:00I wish I had advice for you, but if you do find so...I wish I had advice for you, but if you do find some, let me know! Even though we have husbands two boys full time, my husband is reluctant to disagree with his ex for any reason, for fear she'll try to take the boys. She left my husband for his brother, leaving her children behind. She pays no child support, and we know if we ask for it, she'll take us to court. <BR/><BR/>I wish I had wise Honeybellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06448242064198643614noreply@blogger.com