tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post8465519560827725086..comments2024-02-21T08:58:09.518-08:00Comments on Her Bad Mother's Basement: Her Bad AngerHer Bad Motherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03535958887714152413noreply@blogger.comBlogger22125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-66175803767768454732007-10-02T12:42:00.000-07:002007-10-02T12:42:00.000-07:00i tried to ask for financial help from my mom... i...i tried to ask for financial help from my mom... i'm currently earning $10 per day (that is due to demographical reasons, i'm not in U.S. and she is) i asked her for like $200 atleast.. I know it is much. she's earning more than $20 per hour... and that is not my point. That is her money. I just don't want her to say that THE ONLY WAY SHE COULD HELP ME IS WHEN SHE DIES AND I GOT TO HAVE HER Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-20361899482268440442007-08-29T21:09:00.000-07:002007-08-29T21:09:00.000-07:00Mothers and daughter. It can be volatile indeed.Mothers and daughter. It can be volatile indeed.Kylahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03311014761113076785noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-31430603942586430462007-08-20T18:19:00.000-07:002007-08-20T18:19:00.000-07:00I hope that things improve for you - but - whatev...I hope that things improve for you - but - whatever happens she is still your Mum and the only one you will ever have.merinzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01950053039147788819noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-82004139888687719932007-08-19T18:15:00.000-07:002007-08-19T18:15:00.000-07:00I have to admit that I envy the fact that you guys...I have to admit that I envy the fact that you guys get it out on the table. You care enough to disagree.<BR/><BR/>That said, I still wish you weren't hurting.Julie Marshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05386446012443269817noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-31100939047645419412007-08-18T11:21:00.000-07:002007-08-18T11:21:00.000-07:00That sucks Catherine. I hope you find somewhere to...That sucks Catherine. I hope you find somewhere to purge your anger.moplanshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16998309937928231527noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-48658900365503550102007-08-18T06:10:00.000-07:002007-08-18T06:10:00.000-07:00My mother is the one person who can make me cry wi...My mother is the one person who can make me cry with an offhand comment, and probably the one person I have hurt the most in my short life. We have a certain amount of shiny-happy love built back up since the teenage years, but it's still so fragile sometimes. On the other hand, when I think of my older sister, who hasn't spoken to her in 15 years, and that my mom ran away from home at 15 and Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-90307669509469422382007-08-18T05:17:00.000-07:002007-08-18T05:17:00.000-07:00I'm sorry you're having such a hard time right now...I'm sorry you're having such a hard time right now. I have a lot of unbloggable issues with my mother, too. I hope things get better soon.<BR/><BR/>Have you considered emailing a few trustworthy people, just to vent?Jaelithehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12081888212421953409noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-42130741761643476692007-08-18T00:47:00.000-07:002007-08-18T00:47:00.000-07:00I have no images for you, but I am sending you cal...I have no images for you, but I am sending you calming thoughts in hopes that things between you and your mom cool off quickly. <BR/><BR/>It's amazing how those closest to us can make us react the strongest... probably because we care so very, very much about what they think about us and our lives.ewe are herehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13339650361453626546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-11287047036059733482007-08-17T19:57:00.000-07:002007-08-17T19:57:00.000-07:00My relationship with my mother is the most complic...My relationship with my mother is the most complicated one of my life. And it's that way for so many mothers & daughters, isn't it? Only someone that we love so much could hurt us like that.<BR/><BR/>((HUGS))Lawyer Mamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06819273107327846943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-63243376195572293652007-08-17T13:45:00.000-07:002007-08-17T13:45:00.000-07:00I'm sorry you're all bottled up. I'm also sorry th...I'm sorry you're all bottled up. I'm also sorry that you're upset with your Mom- I've read you enough to know that the relationship is a very meaningful one.<BR/><BR/>I sincerely wish I could do something for you. If you want to post on my blog, you are more than welcome, like your previous poster, I have five readers.....<BR/><BR/>You won't do that, though, because you really can't, I guess.<BR/Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-87635664031344786312007-08-17T05:21:00.000-07:002007-08-17T05:21:00.000-07:00The way you described your Achilles heel is a way ...The way you described your Achilles heel is a way in which I could describe my relationship with my mother. I understand. It's damn hard. <BR/><BR/>As others have said, you are more than welcome to jump in the handbasket and let go of that tar-like anger.mamatuliphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02692442843330582571noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-23064176502271169062007-08-16T23:20:00.000-07:002007-08-16T23:20:00.000-07:00I have a secret blog, too. No one knows about it,...I have a secret blog, too. No one knows about it, not even my husband. Well, he knows I have one, but not where it actually is. I find it very freeing, actually.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-63746031481914068042007-08-16T19:50:00.000-07:002007-08-16T19:50:00.000-07:00one can be eaten by anger. Isn't it amazing how th...one can be eaten by anger. Isn't it amazing how those you love can move you to the greatest emotions?<BR/><BR/>xocrazymummahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04663148723513574331noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-78956911072900293352007-08-16T19:16:00.000-07:002007-08-16T19:16:00.000-07:00Yeah, you don't know me but you could vent on my b...Yeah, you don't know me but you could vent on my blog too. I have like 3 readers so you would be totally anonymous! It's really sad that you have this basement for everybody else but you don't have anywhere to unload your stuff. My door is open to you however.Pollyannahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13746802517039945488noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-39971828691667460432007-08-16T15:42:00.000-07:002007-08-16T15:42:00.000-07:00I second what Laura said dear friend. I am sure so...I second what Laura said dear friend. I am sure so many of us would lend you our place to get it out and get the support. You are so generous with this space that you deserve a spot to rant and unload and let go of the tar. Big hugs to you<BR/>xoxoAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-77533296277704852832007-08-16T13:17:00.000-07:002007-08-16T13:17:00.000-07:00you're totally welcome to my place if you want it....you're totally welcome to my place if you want it. i wouldn't even think twice about giving you that space for a bit if you felt it would help. seriously - just say the word.Larahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04389047861929002263noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-14650870491156017312007-08-16T13:03:00.000-07:002007-08-16T13:03:00.000-07:00I'm sorry, Catherine. ((hugs))I'm sorry, Catherine. ((hugs))Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-31323053236398805442007-08-16T12:09:00.000-07:002007-08-16T12:09:00.000-07:00Oh, how absolutely frustrating! All that anger an...Oh, how absolutely frustrating! All that anger and no place to put it when you need to! Maybe you could do like the previous commentors said and either make an anonymous, not linked to anything, blog just for times like this. Or write it down with big furious black marker words on paper... then rip, tear, rip it up with a vengence!<BR/><BR/>Sorry this space can't be for you what's it's been Ms. Huis Herselfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10965333243525156916noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-85614311255147942922007-08-16T12:03:00.001-07:002007-08-16T12:03:00.001-07:00I know this is like, so hippie dippie you'll proba...I know this is like, so hippie dippie you'll probably puke, BUT...<BR/><BR/>Write it. On paper. All of it, the nasty, the mean, the ugly in whatever form it takes. Then take that piece of paper, and set it on fire.flutterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11828689769747130419noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-82479873610608648132007-08-16T12:03:00.000-07:002007-08-16T12:03:00.000-07:00Yup. Me, too.I get it and I'm sorry. Hope things g...Yup. Me, too.<BR/><BR/>I get it and I'm sorry. Hope things get better for you soon.<BR/><BR/>Nothing hurts worse than anger and love mixed together.Amyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11342425698876916791noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-30101377293016248182007-08-16T11:39:00.000-07:002007-08-16T11:39:00.000-07:00It does suck and I understand (as I'm sure many do...It does suck and I understand (as I'm sure many do).<BR/><BR/>The black tar sometimes coats the eyes and thoughts and comes out in the worst ways. Wish you had a place to purge, purge, purge and release.<BR/><BR/>Between the two banners I'm leaning towards the key but I'm gonna hunt around my graphics stash and get back to you on that.motherbumperhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16053978199395919666noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-64288630760827899122007-08-16T11:25:00.000-07:002007-08-16T11:25:00.000-07:00Everyone I know knows about my blog, as well as th...Everyone I know knows about my blog, as well as this place and a couple others. So I created a totally anonymous blog to use in just this type of situation. Because sometimes you just can't swallow it, you have to get it out.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com