tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post6117965809184412122..comments2024-02-21T08:58:09.518-08:00Comments on Her Bad Mother's Basement: Wanting To Erase The PastHer Bad Motherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03535958887714152413noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-70945954949061843052009-12-10T12:00:06.008-08:002009-12-10T12:00:06.008-08:00I am the one who wrote this post-
First off I woul...I am the one who wrote this post-<br />First off I would like to thank all of you for your advice & support you have taken the time to give. I have honestly been reading these replies over and over and over again, trying to take everything and anything in to consideration.<br />Dear Anonymous " 7:13am" -I have thought and tried to work up the courage to tell my husband about Jayce Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-14937295522474686852009-11-30T13:51:34.587-08:002009-11-30T13:51:34.587-08:00Dear Poster:
Don't erase the past, learn from ...Dear Poster:<br />Don't erase the past, learn from it.<br /><br />Dear HBM:<br />Thank you for creating and maintaining a place for people to help each other.<br /><br />Hugs to both of you. xoxoAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-79091830170033280142009-11-30T11:54:03.265-08:002009-11-30T11:54:03.265-08:00cont'd
So here is my question: Why don't ...cont'd<br /><br />So here is my question: Why don't they teach us this stuff in school? I did not have a mother who was able to teach me this. (I'll leave her out of it. Let's just say I DID.NOT.LEARN.THIS.AT.HOME.) And, if there is ANYTHING I want to teach my children it is this very topic. How to create and recognize functional relationships. I think one way to tell whether a Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-18102905822517383762009-11-30T11:53:29.902-08:002009-11-30T11:53:29.902-08:00This post really resonated with me. I could have w...This post really resonated with me. I could have written this when I was in my twenties and when I was in my thirties, because it took me that long to get love figured out. I started off making classic mistakes in my first relationship (e.g. confusing sex with love, knowing I felt badly about the way he treated me but thinking, wishing he would change, overall feeling not that important to him Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-73164541627037126962009-11-28T13:11:14.605-08:002009-11-28T13:11:14.605-08:00I read this post yesterday and have been thinking ...I read this post yesterday and have been thinking about it ever since. I wanted so badly to comment because I hear you asking for help. I didn't want to comment until I had thought it through. I thoughts settled on the word "sabotage", I wanted to make a comment or pose to you a question about why you are sabotaging yourself, why are you punishing yourself. Then I saw the third Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-23615833397658381892009-11-28T00:41:48.443-08:002009-11-28T00:41:48.443-08:00I think you need to find a reputable counsellor or...I think you need to find a reputable counsellor or some kind of professional to talk to about why you're determined to sabotage your own life and happiness. And potentially drag someone (your husband) down with you. Seriously. You sound incredibly immature/scared about moving on and growing up ... and perhaps counselling can help you figure out 'why'.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-14992885607975368142009-11-27T07:15:01.090-08:002009-11-27T07:15:01.090-08:00This seriously made me cry. I have gone through t...This seriously made me cry. I have gone through the same thing with my ex from college. We dated for 4 years and he took my V too, I was madly in love with him but he had some issues and we split and got back together more times then I can recall. Then I met my current boyfriend and we fell in love instantly, probably too fast and during our 1 month break up I contacted my ex. He asked me to Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26063103.post-66806468328983578902009-11-27T07:13:09.316-08:002009-11-27T07:13:09.316-08:00Honestly, I think you need to tell your husband ab...Honestly, I think you need to tell your husband about it. It will be the hardest thing you've ever done, but he needs to know all of you for you to really let go of this and be close to him. He's your husband, the man you are going to be with the rest of your life, and he needs to know all of you. If you are honest and unreserved (just as you are in this post), he will forgive and Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com