Tuesday, July 21, 2009

Dear Sonuvabitch

Posted by Anonymous.

Open letter to the sonuvabitch that refuses to pay his child support:

You suck!!!!! It's not fair!! And I wish you a slow and painful death!!!!!

Thank you. Now I can listen to my children mention their father without wanting to scream out what a dick he is. And a dead beat. And a no good, irresponsible, piece of shit that does not deserve to have such sweet children. (Did I mention I hate him?---Oh, you could tell? Well, then, good.)

The end.


Anonymous said...

yes you are allowed to rant, but you also made children with this man. If he is in any way involved in their lives (goes to soccer games, spends time with them, etc...) be thankful for that. If not, then be thankful that he's not paying and has no involvement whatsoever and will never rear his head. This way you are only accountable to the children and no one else.

He didn't turn into a creep overnight, people just don't do that. You just didn't want to see who he really was.

Sorry if this sounds harsh, but I hear this same argument so many times from so many women. I don't buy it anymore. He didn't magically turn into a sonuvabitch.

Let this be a lesson to all women out there and learn to make children with better men than this.

Anonymous said...

I was listening to some radio show the other morning that calls dead beat dads on the air and embarrasses/harrasses them. I dunno if it works to get them to do what is right, but it might make you feel better. I'm sure google will point you to the show in question.

Alexa said...

I think first annon is being ridiculous. This is a rant, not a summary of her relationship with the man. The site is designed to let people vent out their feelings.
I'm sorry he isn't paying child support. Good job on not talking about it to the kids. My parents did that and it sucked and made me resentful towards whoever was complaining.

Anonymous said...

You go girl! Ignore commenter #1. Getting your anger out in a safe space where you don't let your kids hear it is the best thing you can do.

Hope he pays (in every sense of the word).

Anonymous said...

The "Deadbeat Dad" calls are on The Billy Madison Show on Thursday mornings out of KDGE (The Edge) in Dallas, TX. I listed to that station in the mornings. So far, every guy on the call is a real scumbag, who couldn't care less about his children or ex-wife.

Candy said...

I am totally convinced Commenter #1 is a man. Probably one who hasn't paid his child support in 5 years.

My sister married a scumbag who left her for another woman and never paid her a penny. She ended up on welfare for 15 years, trying to support herself and her kids, while he remarried and started a family he liked better. Someone should have strung him up by his testicles, but that was a long time ago, and men were allowed to get away with that crap. It sucks, it truly does.

Lisa said...

Boys oh boys I could have written this!

Shana said...

I am a stepmom to two wonderful children. We have full custody and their mother doesn't pay a lick of child support. We got custody about the time we got married. (when my husband didn't have custody he ALWAYS paid his child support and she still bitched!) My mother gave me some really good advice...never plan on the child support. When you are budgeting or determining if you can afford something...don't include the child support. It has made all the difference for me. Yes i am still bitter when they come back from her house with stories of the places they went and a bag of present she bought them but at the end of the day I am not stressing about paying the mortgage cause she hasn't paid her child support.

Anonymous said...

i could have written this.

instead the piece of shit that donated the sperm for my kids....

he signed off all his rights to my kids.


thats right, my dad is now legally their dad. which makes them my kids and my siblings in the eyes of the law.

so, yea, we have LOTS of fucking issues in my family.

good for you for ranting HERE and not in front of them. its fuckin HARD!!!!!!!

love ya for it.

commenter #1 -- probably a really bad dad.

CageQueen said...

The most selfless thing you can do is to keep the bad stuff to yourself and not burden them with it, so for that I commend you. They'll (unfortunately) learn on their own the truth in his ways. Venting is a good idea. :)